Traveling the world often means coming across different cultural traditions that at first sight might seem bizarre. The most common example would be eating strange types of food that you’re simple not used to. However, when I was in South Africa, I started to become curious about another cultural tradition, funerals.
While sitting in a restaurant in a South African township, I saw a big poster of an insurance company offering coverage for funerals. My local friend explained that in the life of a South African, a funeral is way more important than a wedding or graduation. He said that people simply care more about how others see their last event, even though they aren’t really there to attend it.
Unlike a Western funeral where overt displays of grief and sadness are common, funerals in South Africa are treated as celebratory events.
While some might think that a funeral is simply digging a hole and then crying for a bit, history has proven that there is no end to man’s creativity even when it comes to funeral traditions.
Striptease funeral – Taiwan
Your funeral could not be more fun than in Taiwan, where people believe that a spirit should be happy when leaving the mortal realm. According to the Taiwanese, the best way to make a spirit happy is by hiring a few strippers, naturally. Finding a group of strippers is incredibly easy since they travel around the country waiting for someone to call on them. Breast in peace I guess!
Famadihama – Madagascar
Famadihana, also knows as the return of the bones (Doesn’t it sound like a title of a horror movie?), is a funerary tradition of the Malagasy people from Madagascar. Families dig up the tombs of their ancestors and bring their bodies to their homes where they change their clothes and dance with them. It’s meant to establish a connection between the dead and the living. After the party is over the dead are re-interred until the next get together.
Sky Burial – India, China & Mongolia
Another peculiar tradition known as a sky burial has been kept by the Zoroastrian communities of central Asia. People prepare the body of the dearly departed by cleaning and bathing it before placing it on the top of a religious temple to be eaten by vultures. The idea behind this tradition is that the dead must get rid of their physical forms so their spirits can be released.
A similar yet completely different tradition exists in Papua New Guinea except that instead of vultures, the deceased’s friends and family actually eat them! Not only that, the members of the family cut a piece of one of their fingers off as an expression of sorrow.
Hanging coffins – China & Philippines
If I ask you to imagine a coffin, you probably think of a box in the ground. However, some Asian communities don’t share this perspective. They believe the closer the coffin is to the sky, the closer the spirit is to heaven. Seems logical I suppose. To achieve this, they hang their coffins on the side of cliffs. What are the chairs doing there as well? The body is often placed in the house of the family for about a week, sitting in a chair, which in the end gets placed on the cliff with the coffin.
Design your own coffin – Ghana
Artists in Ghana have become world famous for their especially artistic coffins designed to represent a particular characteristic of the deceased. The whole tradition started from a plane-shaped coffin made for a grandmother who didn’t have enough time to travel the world before she died. You can order a coffin in any shape you like so you better start thinking of ideas!
Those who think these traditions are strange might be interested in reading about a new type of funeral in the United States. We’re all familiar with the concept of a drive-thru fast food restaurant, but some Americans actually applied this to a funeral. You can drive in, sign a book, and look at the body without even leaving your car.